-Your Monthly Dose of NOtivation for MARCH

Published: Wed, 03/20/13



     

 
March 2013 |  from Go for No!
NOteworthy Thought of the Month 

"Don't be afraid to give up the good to go for the great." - John D. Rockefeller

This Month's Trivia Question

In 1893 Whitcomb L. Judson won the patent for what he called "the clasp locker and unlocker for shoes." What was the product eventually called? Think you kNOW...  find out below!

This Month's NOtivational Article

Success is in the Margins
by Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz

We read a fascinating article from The Sheaf, University of Saskatchewan which made the case that we systematically drill in a fear of failure into children, especially as they move through the school system, quote:  "The first thing students look at when a professor returns an exam or assignment is the grade -- not the corrections or the suggestions that are scrawled in the margins. There are no marks awarded for doing something new or for caring deeply about what you're learning. When only the grade is important, students lose any interest in doing work beyond what is necessary to get a good mark."

So we think it's an intriguing idea that perhaps what we need to know to be successful in this world is often found in the margins.

What we mean by this is that the feedback that we require to correct our course and move towards our dreams, while sometimes painful to hear, is exactly what we need.  The problem is that many of us tend to avoid hearing anything that we consider to be negative and as a result miss the opportunity to improve.

For example, isn't it interesting when someone says something negative about us, our first instinct is to criticize the person for giving the feedback rather than asking, What can I learn from it? Yes, sometimes people will say things to us and/or about us that we should completely ignore or discard, but before we do... maybe it would be wise to ask, is there a grain of truth here and if so, how can I use this to become better?

Which brings to mind when our book Go for No! was first released how someone had sent us a list of typos. Our first reaction was, "wow, this person missed the point of the book and focused on typos?!" However, the next thing we did was fix the typos!

Go for No!® News

Jia Jiang, who we featured a couple months ago with his 100 Day Rejection challenge did a nice 'go for no' shout out for his Day 76 Rejection. His videos are great, such a sweet guy. Watching him gather all the no's (and yeses) you can tell he is really getting quite good at 'going for no!'  

Can we connect? Are you on facebook? We'd love to have you visit our page and get daily NOtivation... www.facebook.com/Goforno  Are you on twitter? Chat up Andrea anytime at www.twitter.com/Goforno  Are you doing the pinterest thing yet? We're dabbling... www.pinterest.com/Goforno/

We had an amazing time in Dublin and Great Britain this month. Spoke to a total of about 8000+ people over 3 engagements which was a blast!  Had some tourist time too. In Dublin we visited St. Michan's underground crypts and saw 'the mummies.'

NOtable Quotables from the Go for No! Movie

"It goes back to whatever our early experiences were with "No, " and most of us had some kind of experience. I know you say, "No doesn't mean never," but for a lot of us it did mean "never." - Elayne Savage

Richard & Andrea Recommend...

... A couple weeks ago we sent out a special note for our direct sales and network marketing readers about 7-figure earner Mark Januszewski (he calls himself the World's Laziest Networker and yet he's very successful!) Mark has created a great program called Go90Grow and his free training videos are still available but we know the program will close soon. If it sounds interesting please check it out as soon as you can! Click Here.

This Month's Trivia Answer

Judson displayed his clasp-locker at the 1893 Chicago World's Fair but was basically ignored (it didn't work that well.) The device was remodeled in 1913 by another man turning what is now known as the "zipper" into a great success.
 
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