- Your Weekly Dose of NOtivation from Go for No!

Published: Mon, 04/12/10


     

 
April 12, 2010 |  from Go for No!
NOteworthy Thought of the Week 

"It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default." - JK Rowling 2008 Harvard Commencement Address

This Week's Trivia Question

According to legend, it's good luck to throw back the first fish you catch - if you do, they say you'll be lucky for the whole day.  But there's something that - if you do it - will limit the number of fish you catch.  What is it? Go fishing below for the answer!

This Week's NOtivational Article

Yes Is So Positive... 
by Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz

There is a story about John Lennon's first encounter with Yoko Ono. He attended the pre-opening viewing of one of her shows. Her art was mostly strange and experiential.

The story goes that he climbed up an unsteady ladder to look through a small eyeglass where he found a single word: yes. It's been reported he later said that if it said "no" he wouldn't have been interested in getting to know her!

It is funny how the word "yes" is always looked at as so positive and wonderful. And it is great, don’t get us wrong.  We like "yes" as much as the next person.   But clearly, "no" has gotten a bad rap. No wonder so many people feel damaged, deflated, and depressed when they hear the word "no!" It's a hated word.

Guess what? If you sell a product, service or yourself you are going to hear the word no. Don't kid yourself. The only way you'll stop hearing "no" is to quit entirely. And a lot of people do. They've been taught (programed) that no is bad. It's a failure. And people don't like to feel like failures. And if they feel bad about something they won't do it. 

Yet all the successful people - in whatever endeavor you are involved in - have gotten tons and tons of "no's" suffering all types of failure and rejection. They have learned that they are not failures. They have essentially reprogrammed their thinking.  They know that, yes is the destination... but no is how you get there!

Go for No!® News

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NOtable Quotables from the Go for No! Movie

"Most people think it's the end, that it's over, that's it, they have to just move on. It's not, it's just that sometimes, most often it's a light, maybe sometimes the light's yellow and sometimes the light's red and you just have to get around what the issues are." - Millie Rosenbloom

Richard & Andrea Recommend...

Mind Over Back Pain by John Sarno, M.D.  Not the traditional type of recommendation since only a percentage of you likely suffer from back pain, but if you do, you know that this debilitating condition can literally take over your life! Forget about going for no... all you want to do is lie down and not move.  So, if this is you, make your way (slowly) to the computer and get this book!  Yes, you think you've tried everything, but this just might be THE thing to get your life back (it was for both of us!)

This Week's Trivia Answer

If you count the number of fish you've caught at any given time, legend says you'll catch no more for the rest of the day! (kind of makes you want to avoid tallying up your sales, huh?) 

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