- Your Weekly Dose of NOtivation from Go for No!

Published: Mon, 03/22/10



     

 
March 22, 2010 |  from Go for No!
NOteworthy Thought of the Week 

"Greatness is not in where we stand, but in what direction we are moving." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

This Week's Trivia Question

This drink product started in the U.S. but sells for three times the price of liquor in some parts of the world; originally marketed as a 'brain tonic' but that didn't go over well. What is it? Find out below!

This Week's NOtivational Article

Tale of Two Subscribers
by Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz

Every week, after sending out our ezine, we get notes with feedback and comments from subscribers.  A lot of the feedback is from people telling us they liked a particular article, or thinking us for taking the time to put the ezine together in the first place.  But... every now and then... we get some "negative" feedback.  Like this past week.  Fortunately, over the years we have developed a "thicker skin" and are not as affected by it. As we tell people about hearing the word "NO", it isn't a reflection of us as people... just the ideas.  

Here's what's cool...  when we get two comments in the same week, about the same issue... and they are virtually opposites.  For example:

Subscriber Comment #1: "Even though you want it to have a positive effect, the result (of your ezine) is negative and uninspiring."  Ouch!  But then (about the same issue!)...

Subscriber #2: "This week's 'Noteworthy thought of the week' is the most beautiful thing! You guys keep me alive and kicking.  I do not know what to say...it is you, people that I never met who make a difference for me in a more profound way than many of my friends and even some family members."

So which one is right? Feedback from Subscriber #1 or Subscriber #2?  The answer is...  both.  They are both right because they are both entitled to their opinions and their personal tastes.  We have to understand that feedback is not really about the "receiver" - it's about the "sender."

To take feedback "personally" is like Rocky Road ice cream being jealous because someone picked the World Class Chocolate (Richard's personal favorite) instead.  So, when someone says "NO" to you... even if they say it in a hostile way... remember it's about their opinions, their needs, and their personal taste.  It's NOT about you.

Go for No!® News

This week we are doing a private one-hour teleseminar for a company in Australia. Find out how you can have us do a private teleseminar for your team! Just fill out our Contact Us form.

NOtable Quotables from the Go for No! Movie

"I think people have a fear of hearing the word, "No," because a lot of people take the word "No" personally, and they view "No" as someone saying that they're not good enough, when really all a client is saying is "No" to the service or the product that they're offering at that particular time." - Josh Mueller

Richard & Andrea Recommend...

John Maxwell's book, "Put Your Dream to the Test."  Quite honestly, we've never been super-Maxwell fans - his stuff is usually a bit too general and basic for our tastes - but with this book Maxwell has hit a home run. No, make that a grand slam!  What's the difference between a dream and someone who achieves a dream? Maxwell lays it all out in this masterpiece. Do you have a dream?  This book will put it to the test, so be prepared!

This Week's Trivia Answer

The drink: Coca-Cola® (trademark given in 1893!)

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