- Your Weekly Dose of NOtivation from Go for No!

Published: Mon, 02/15/10



     

 
February 15, 2010 |  from Go for No!
NOteworthy Thought of the Week 

Regardless of what your particular product or service is, people are drawn to you (or not) because of how you make them feel. They don't simply want to buy your product, they want to be uplifted, encouraged, changed in some way. - from 'Go-Givers Sell More' by Bob Burg & John David Mann 

This Week's Trivia Question

What invention, more than 100 years old, has a product, a company, a town, an institution and a school named after it? The answer is below!

This Week's NOtivational Article

The Downside of Passion - Part 1
by Richard Fenton & Andrea Waltz

According to the teachings of Aristotle, there are three main elements when it comes to influencing thoughts and actions; Ethos, Logos, and Pathos.

ETHOS has to do with character, like in the word ETHICS.
LOGOS has to do with reason, like in the word LOGICAL.
PATHOS has to do with emotion, like in PASSION. 

You can't be too ethical or, for that matter, logical. But what about being too passionate? Rod Stewart might disagree... and what we're about to say might be a bit counter-intuitive to what you currently believe and been taught. But, to be more effective in virtually any endeavor, most of us need to have less pathos in regards to the outcome of a given situation.  Not zero passion, mind you, but probably less than you're currently experiencing.

Consider, for example, how a doctor must remain unemotional and dispassionate in order to conduct surgery.  It's not that doctors are completely dispassionate - they do care about the patient and the outcome - but a certain amount of detachment is required to be effective.  In fact, often doctors are encouraged to avoid operating on relatives and loved ones because being to close to the patient might bring in too much emotion... too much pathos... to do the job efficiently.

Another example is in negotiating. The first rule of effective negotiating is to not care about whether you make the deal.  And when you up the ante to hostage negotiation, can you imagine the FBI sending someone in to negotiate the release of a friend or relative? Never!  This need for detachment is required of us as well, no matter what we do for a living.  Because it is often our attachment to the outcome of a given situation that makes us less effective, whether it's selling product or managing a team.

Keep in mind we're not telling you to be emtionless, boring, or to remove excitement from your life... but next week we'll cover how to make our passion work for us rather than against us!

Go for No!® News

If all went right, Andrea spent most of yesterday evening picking through a giant red heart filled with chocolate. Follow her on twitter for the scoop!

We'll be featured as the guest experts with direct sales coaching guru, Julie Anne Jones, on Wednesday, February 17th. If you would like to attend this free call or you know a direct seller who'd benefit,
come sign up here. 

NOtable Quotables from the Go for No! Movie

"I view failure as an opportunity, and so I see failure as an opportunity for me to sit back and reanalyze the situation and figure out what could I do better." - Josh Mueller 

Richard & Andrea Recommend...

Have you heard of "The Go-Giver" by Bob Burg and John David Mann? It's a great little book that was released 2 years ago - teaching some awesome principles about the power of giving.  Without any big budget advertising or "star power," it's become quite a grassroots phenomena - continuing to sell big and inspire reviews and blog posts week after week.  The authors have done it again - creating what we believe will be an instant bestseller with their latest, "Go-Givers Sell More."  This powerful little gem begins where their first book left off - by giving us real world methods and examples of applying these fun and effective principles to our businesses! It's masterful!  

Secure your copy of Go-Givers Sell More today and get the special bonuses that they've put together for those who do! Visit: http://www.gogiverssellmore.com/launch-special/

This Week's Trivia Answer

Hershey! (Did you guess right?)

This Week "In the Club"

This week Richard & Andrea share the second in a series of "The 12 Greatest Sales Strategies Ever Created" which will appear in the club, one per month, throughout 2010. This one is called, "Limited Time Offer." Come have a listen! Already a member? Log in here!

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