One of the things I discuss in the Ask Your Ask-Off Challenge are
the faulty beliefs that you may have been taught about asking while growing up.
Things like:
- Asking is rude... don't be rude.
- Don't look greedy. (You don't need more.)
- Hold back, be polite,
wait.
- Don't push or "chase," if they want it, they'll tell you.
How are these beliefs serving you now?
At best these beliefs are obstacles you have to
work around. At worst, they are sabotaging you.
Then, you look around and watch someone else get a promotion, sell their idea, be selected for a special project, or get a big yes... you think, what's the secret?
They are not buying into these false beliefs about asking. They are willing to face rejection.
And if you sell anything today...
if you are not asking enough, you will lose to
people who do.
It's that simple.
Until I embraced "go for no" I was not a great asker.
I always held back and cared waaaaaay too much about what other people would think about me!
The best way to dismantle these myths and face any rejection fear is to challenge them by engaging in more asking.
The Ask Your Ask Off Challenge is for you!
We start next week, November 13th but there's a mini-course I'd like you to go through to be prepared. (That's worth the investment right there.)
I know you are busy so before you click off, talk yourself out of this, or go grab more coffee... sign up here now!
